Comments on: Selfish or not Selfish?

By: numbwife

numbwife — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 22:30:54 +0000

I so see what yall are saying. I guess yall are right…I would be so happy for her if it was the other way around. My husband and I have gone through so much to get where we are with TTC and it would be dumb of us. Thanks for the good advise and the wishes. We need it

By: Jennie

Jennie — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 22:11:13 +0000

You full on keep trying. I would have been thrilled for them if either one of my bridesmaids had been expecting a baby when I got married, as would all good friends be. This baby is for your family, you and your husband, not for anyone else and you shouldn’t try to fit into anyone else’s timescales. Do that and you’ll be too stressed for success! Good luck, fingers crossed x

By: mkwewer

mkwewer — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 19:26:05 +0000

Nope, I wouldn’t stop trying. You want this and if she’s your best friend, she will understand that you are either prego in the wedding and photos or you can do something else to be part of her day but seriously, I wouldn’t put it off if you don’t want to.