Posted by: numbwife | July 28, 2008

Selfish or not Selfish?

Well, I guess this month is just not going to be the month.  I mean I really didn’t think we were that lucky that the first month it would just happen for us BUT I did :)   We have still been BD because I have been told with PCOS, OPKs dont always work.  The only thing is I have not even had any signs of O, my CM has been the same watery like CM throughout it all.  I really didnt get any side effects from Clomid other then the occasional hot flashes so I am thinking it just did not do the job.  I am only on day 19 though and I have heard of some on Clomid not Oing until later like 23 and 24 so I gues I still have hope.  Just fustrating playing this waiting game.

Okay, so another obsticles has been put in the works.  One of my best friends is getting married next September and I would have hated having a pregnant girl in my wedding photos.  I mean, I was bridezilla but out of respect, I dont want that for her either.  So, we either have to get pregnant before September which, September would give me 9 months plus recovery, or what?  Would you stop TTC just because of your friends wedding or would you continue and just have her deal with it? 

 

I need some advise?  Hopefully we won’t have to worry about it but just in case….

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  1. Nope, I wouldn’t stop trying. You want this and if she’s your best friend, she will understand that you are either prego in the wedding and photos or you can do something else to be part of her day but seriously, I wouldn’t put it off if you don’t want to.

    By: mkwewer on July 28, 2008
    at 3:26 pm

  2. You full on keep trying. I would have been thrilled for them if either one of my bridesmaids had been expecting a baby when I got married, as would all good friends be. This baby is for your family, you and your husband, not for anyone else and you shouldn’t try to fit into anyone else’s timescales. Do that and you’ll be too stressed for success! Good luck, fingers crossed x

    By: Jennie on July 28, 2008
    at 6:11 pm

  3. I so see what yall are saying. I guess yall are right…I would be so happy for her if it was the other way around. My husband and I have gone through so much to get where we are with TTC and it would be dumb of us. Thanks for the good advise and the wishes. We need it :)

    By: numbwife on July 28, 2008
    at 6:30 pm


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